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I heard the bells...

2011-12-17T15:11:00.000-08:00

This is one of my favorite Christmas songs. I like the Casting Crowns version and MercyME version as well. I love the line "God is not dead nor does He sleep." I'm checking around for some of the back story on the song. Here are two links I found (here and here). Check out below for Casting Crowns and MercyME versions embedded in the post.

I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,
And wild and sweet
The words repeat
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And thought how, as the day had come,
The belfries of all Christendom
Had rolled along
The unbroken song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Till, ringing, singing on its way,
The world revolved from night to day,
A voice, a chime,
A chant sublime
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Then from each black, accursed mouth
The cannon thundered in the South,
And with the sound
The carols drowned
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

It was as if an earthquake rent
The hearth-stones of a continent,
And made forlorn
The households born
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And in despair I bowed my head;
"There is no peace on earth," I said:
"For hate is strong,
And mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!"

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
"God is not dead; nor doth he sleep!
The Wrong shall fail,
The Right prevail,
With peace on earth, good-will to men!"

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (Christmas 1863)

Casting Crowns

Mercy Me

From the Archive (September 2, 2009)

2011-12-16T12:37:00.001-08:00

I love this song by Phil Wickham. It exlplains the gospel simply and effectively! Enjoy!

Finding True Happiness 11/13/2011

2011-12-04T20:08:00.000-08:00

Sermons

2011-12-02T13:56:00.001-08:00

You can listen to sermons I've preached. There is a sermon player in the left sidebar of this page. I preached the most recent one at Lost Mountain Baptist Church during the evening service on 11/13/2011. It's titled "Finding True Happiness."

The One You need

2011-12-02T13:06:00.001-08:00

I love Shane and Shane. Their music is so good. I really like the song off of their newest album "The One You Need." It was written to their daughters about how much Jesus means. I want to be so much for my daughter Caroline, but above all, I know she needs Jesus and ultimately His salvation. This is my prayer. Enjoy this great song.

Upcoming preaching opportunities

2011-11-27T19:21:00.001-08:00

I am so excited to be able to preach coming soon.

On January 22nd @ 6:00pm at New Georgia Baptist Church

On February 12 @ 6:00pm at Lost Mountain Baptist Church

I would appreciate your prayers as I begin to prepare for these two sermons. I am humbled by the opportunities and excited about being used by God in this way. To preach God's word is my passion.

David Platt on Football

2011-11-26T15:13:00.001-08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3phxhrKUdl4&sns=em

The Morning I Heard the Voice of God

2011-11-21T07:39:00.000-08:00

I am so thankful for the ministry of John Piper. I especially appreciate this post from him. The Morning I Heard the Voice of God

HT:JT

Come Thou Fount

2011-11-18T06:52:00.001-08:00

The story behind one of my favorite hymns.

Finding True Happiness

2011-11-15T07:01:00.001-08:00

I am so thankful for the opportunity to preach this past Sunday at my church (Lost Mountain Baptist Church). I felt that it was honoring to God and received well by the folks in attendance that night. I am thankful God seems to be using me and honing my preaching skills. If you'd like to listen, check the sermon audio player in the sidebar to the left.

True Happiness

2011-11-11T11:40:00.001-08:00

In preparing for a sermon this Sunday night, I am struck by God's word in Matthew 5:1-12. The title of the message is "Finding True Happiness." I've studied this passage before and I've become aware before about how counter-intuitive this passage (The whole Sermon on the Mount, for that matter) is to the world and even our sinful propensities. This time, however, it seems quite the contrary even to what most Christians believe to be true happiness.

Jesus was teaching radical truths to his hearers. No doubt they would like to be "blessed" or "happy" in their lives, I just wonder if they knew this one most rightfully considered to be Messiah would tell them such things. True blessedness is a characteristic only God can grant because only God is truly "blessed" (1 Timothy 1:11; 1 Timothy 6:15).

We as believers in Christ should posses some semblance of these virtues Jesus outlines. While they may only be shadows if we are immature in our faith, we should be striving against the worldly norm and striving for Christ's character to be our character. I pray God uses me this Sunday night to first, preach these truths to my own heart but also that the Lord will allow His word to wash over all in attendance in such a way that true change is a result. I also pray that the Lord might save someone this Sunday night through His faithfully preached word.

The most important thing we do...

2011-11-04T15:32:00.001-07:00

I was talking to a friend today about the most important part of ministry. Proclamation of God's word and in particular, the gospel. I pray that these things are always primary in the ministry to which God calls me.

But as for me, I will never boast about anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. The world has been crucified to me through the cross, and I to the world. (Galatians 6:14 HCSB)

A Teacher's Final Instructions

2011-10-22T08:17:00.001-07:00

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God knows...

2010-11-01T13:00:00.000-07:00

As someone who has been the recepient of some good appreciation and as one who hasn't received appreciation quite as well either, I feel the great need to comment on a church sign i've been seeing for the past month.

As you may know, October is Pastor Appreciation month. There is a little church whose sign reads, "God knows we love our Pastor." I think the intention was well meant and i'm sure the church appreciates their Pastor. Yes, and God knows all, so he knows the truth of the hearts of that Pastor's congregation. Here's the question I ask myself every time I see the sign, "Does the Pastor know?"

In other words, does the congregation actually show appreciation for their Pastor? It becomes easy, as in any relationship for one party or the other to feel that by expressing care and appreciation every so often, the recipient should know. Appreciation is something that can be shown any time and hopefully more frequent than one month out of the year. And it doesn't have to be ellaborate. A simple email or a card (with or without money in it) can speak volumes to the man God has called to shepherd His people.

So, have you shown your Pastor any appreciation today?

What is the Gospel? Why do we need it?

2010-08-05T19:34:00.000-07:00

My sermon this past Sunday Evening

I'm sorry Lord

2010-06-03T13:51:00.000-07:00

I wrote a song a year or so ago when the weight of the reality of my sin before God hit me. I realized repentance isn't just a one time thing but something we have to have each and every day. Today this song is on my heart once more.

I'm Sorry Lord

I'm sorry Lord for all that I can do
And how many times that I fail You
And how many days of this will I go through until I realize...

That You're all I need
You're everything
You are all I want and hold on to
You're all I need
You're everything
You are my all
And I will worship You, my King

Here I am again in on my knees
Here I am again and I plead
That this will be the last time
And I will realize

That You're all I need
You're everything
You are all I want and hold on to
You're all I need
You're everything
You are my all
And I will worship You, my King

Holy Lord, I've come into this place
Only by You're glorious grace
And I bow down on my face
Because I've realized

That You're all I need
You're everything
You are all I want and hold on to
You're all I need
You're everything
You are my all
And I will worship You, my King

Lets get serious before the Lord and repent of sin in our lives so we can be clean vessels to be used by Him.

Matt Chandler at T4G

2010-02-26T06:51:00.001-08:00

I was excited when I learned yesterday that Matt Chandler is going to be at Together for the Gospel taking C.J. Mahaney’s session.

I have enjoyed listening to Matt Chandler. I’ve been listening online for a while but got to experience him speaking first hand at Catalyst this year. Since his recent cancer diagnosis, I’ve been listening to him even more. I am thankful for how God is using Matt. I was very touched by the Associated Press article about his recent bought with Cancer.

As you can imagine, Matt will be addressing suffering while speaking at T4G. Here is the announcement from Mark Dever and C.J.’s explanation of why he wanted Matt to take his spot and what he’ll be doing exactly.

Allison and I are going to this conference and we are super excited. I also hope to get to tour Southern Seminary a little since I hope to do my doctoral work there someday.

I agree with a pro-choice journalist

2010-02-03T06:17:00.001-08:00

Well….at least I agree with her on one thing. Sally Jenkins writes about the NOW’s opposition to CBS’s super bowl ad with Tim Tebow.

Sally Writes, “If the pro-choice stance is so precarious that a story about someone who chose to carry a risky pregnancy to term undermines it, then CBS is not the problem.”

You can read the whole piece here.

HT: JT

Been a long time

2010-01-20T13:33:00.000-08:00

Wow, it's been a while since I posted. So, here's an update...

I am the children's minister at www.lmbc.us. I am so loving Lost Mountain Baptist Church. Allison and I have truly found a church home.

I actually got to preach my first Sunday morning service (you can listen here if you'd like) and it was an awesome experience. I am thankful for this opportunity and hope to have more like it.

I absolutley love working with the families of LMBC. They are great! We also have a new kids web page (www.lmbckidz.us).

Above all, we really feel like God is using us for His glory and we couldn't be happier.

I hope to get on a fairly consistent schedule of bloggin, so check back often!

Compassion International

2009-10-20T06:06:00.001-07:00

So, Allison and I are sponsoring our first Compassion child. He’s a little boy from Bolivia. We received his information yesterday in the mail. Compassion International answers all the questions right up front on legitimacy. I would urge you to pray about sponsoring a child for only $38 a month. Check out their website and look at all the children in need of help. $38 is really not a sacrifice for any of us.

I really have felt compelled to sponsor a child for some time now and unfortunately I was afraid of my donation not being used well by the organization of my choice (our church had a small issue with another organization that caused me to worry). But, this year I went to Catalyst and witnessed this below. Jimmy Wambua was sponsored for 19 years by a guy named Mark. Watch the video to witness how much of an impact this had on Jimmy’s life.

Catalyst 2009 Compassion Moment from Catalyst on Vimeo.

I hope my new friend in Bolivia is impacted as much through our obedience to God's leading in our lives as Jimmy was from Mark's obedience to God's leading in his.

HT: Jonathan Cliff

Catalyst 2009

2009-10-13T08:46:00.001-07:00

So, I went to the Catalyst Conference. It was awesome. I have never been before but hope to go again because it was so amazing. While there I learned a lot and also was challenged a lot. Allison and I are now sponsoring a Compassion child.
Someone asked me, knowing that I am a children’s minister. “So what does a children’s minister get out of Catalyst.” I wasn’t offended or anything but as I thought more about it, I realized that a conference on leadership pertains to a children’s minister just as much as anyone else. God has given me the task of discipling kids who will be leaders in just a few years really. If you look at it closely, I’m tasked with developing future youth group leaders and future Pastors even.
My favorites from the conference were Andy Stanley, Pricilla Shirer, Chuck Swindoll, Matt Chandler, and Louie Giglio.
For more detailed lessons from Catalyst, visit my friend Greg’s blog.

Windows Live Writer

2009-10-13T08:31:00.001-07:00

Trying out Windows Live Writer for my blog posting. It looks really cool so far!

HT: MTF

Testing out the Blogging tool for Word 2007

2009-10-07T11:57:00.001-07:00

Just trying out the feature on Word 2007 for publishing blogs directly to the blog.

Louie on CBN

2009-09-25T05:04:00.000-07:00

@louiegiglio on the 700 club talking about passion. If you do not know about passion, click here...there's tons of great information.

Forgotten God - Francis Chan

2009-09-24T07:00:00.000-07:00

I'm almost finished with the new book by Francis Chan. It is definitely worth the read. Here's a widget to let you check it out.

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Following God's Leading

2009-09-15T14:03:00.000-07:00

Some exciting news to post. Allison and I will soon be members of Lost Mountain Baptist Church. After a few months long application and interview process, the church voted me unanimouly to be their new Children's Minister.

Allison and I are very excited at the prospect while at the same time are somewhat sad to leave or church home. This is especially difficult for me concerning I have been attending New Georgia since I was a sixth grader.

My responsibilities there are not much different than the ones I already had at NGBC. But I am not leaving NGBC because I am unhappy or wanting a change of responsibilities or a change of anything for that matter. I am leaving NGBC because, through prayer, I feel God has lead me to Lost Mountain.

I will miss everyone dearly at New GA and plan to visit as often as possible. However, I am excited to meet the folks over at LMBC and get to know them and serve them and their children. Please pray for Allison and myself, i'm certain we will need it. For one, i'm going to need a good memory.

Have any questions or want to send your prayers for us? Please feel free to email @ dsfielder@gmail.com or contact me through facebook or twitter (@dsfielder).

True Love

2009-09-02T06:18:00.001-07:00

I love this song by Phil Wickham. It exlplains the gospel simply and effectively! Enjoy!

Mold me/Use me

2009-08-10T08:07:00.000-07:00

I just heard a great sermon on having a heart on fire for Christ. Toward the end, the pastor challenged the congregation with prayers including the following.

Open my eyes
Search me
Mold me
Use me

My prayer today has been these same prayers. I am thankful to God that He intends to deal with me personally and He shows me His longsuffering lovingkindness (often). I pray that I would be a vessel made ready for His using!

Summertime

2009-07-30T06:40:00.000-07:00

Man...this summer has gone by too fast!!!

VBS...Centrikid...Youth Camp...and more. It has been awesome. I think we've seen God move here at New Georgia. I am excited to see His work continuing in the life of New Georgia Baptist church.

I am thankful to God that He sees fit to use me in the lives of others.

Glory Revealed - Exciting

2009-07-02T20:33:00.001-07:00

Death is Not Dying

2009-05-19T08:07:00.000-07:00

Rachel is 37 years old and will likely not see her 38th birthday. She has cancer. However, she is filled with hope through salvation in Christ. On her website, she has provided a video of a talk she did for a ladies event sponsored by her church, Westside Church. This video (lasting 55 minutes) is well worth the time that it requires considering it is drenched with the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

What she says is so very important for all to hear. I am so thankful to have happened upon this, it reminds me of the gracious love of our Savior.

(HT: Desiring God Blog)

"God So Loved the World"

2009-05-12T08:47:00.000-07:00

Dr. John Piper is one my favorite preachers of God's word. He brings the life giving word of God to bear for anyone who hears his sermon. I love the introductory prayer...my heart is encouraged to pray like this and preach like this. Not in my own power but according to the power of the Holy Spirit. To view the manuscript notes while you watch, visit desiringgod.org.

Ref Tagger

2009-05-11T06:46:00.000-07:00

I'm now using RefTagger, a web tool developed for Logos Bible software. RefTagger takes scripture references that you enter into your blog, website, etc. and makes a tag for it linking it to your online Bible of choice (mine's the ESV). At the same time, when you scroll over any of these scripture references, the text comes up automatically in a little pop-up window.

This is a very helpful tool. Visit desiringgod.org to see it used extensively. But here is a small demonstration if you'd like to see it work here.

"It often amazes me how deep the Lord knows (Psalm 139: 1-4) me and yet still loves (Romans 5:8) me."

School's Out for the Summer

2009-05-01T08:04:00.000-07:00

Just a couple of weeks away from graduation. I'll have my MDiv degree from Luther Rice Seminary here in Lithonia, Ga. It has been an exciting adventure, seminiary that is. I have thouroughly enjoyed it. I am however also ready for a bit of a break. Not from learning just from having to turn in papers and other assignments and worrying about the grades. However, I have also been looking at MACE degree programs. Isn't that funny, not even finished with my last class yet and looking into new schooling.

I actually have a bit of money to pay back to our government since they saw it fit to kindly pay for my schooling (with interest , of course). Once I accomplish that task, I would like to go and get my MACE (Master of Arts in Christian Education) I would love to go to Southern Seminary but might go to New Orleans becasue they have a campus here in North Ga. That's a year or two away so i do not have to make that decision just yet.

What I really want to do now that I'm finished with my Masters is write. I've got quite a few ideas floating around and would like to get something a bit more concrete going on with them. They would be children's books mostly short narratives but I do have a few Children's novels up my sleeves so to speak that I am anxious to begin the work on. My cousin is an artist and has told me he will illustrate the stories for me. He's really good so I am excited about that as well. I would like to venture into some practical writing as well. As of right now I do not have any ideas but might think of some work for Family Ministry or something, wee'll see.

I am really looking forward to some free time with Allison once she's finished for the summer (she's an elementary school teacher).

We shall see!

SBCvoices

2009-04-21T06:27:00.000-07:00

My blog is now listed on SBCvoices...check it out!

Change

2009-03-31T09:33:00.000-07:00

Well it has been quite some time since I have posted and for that I am very sorry. I have been up to my neck in school, BBQ sale, everyday stuff, etc. It has been good, just busy. Allison and I enjoy one another's company more than ever. The most exciting news I have is that I will be graduating May 15th of this year with my Master of Divinity Degree from Luther Rice Seminary. This has been a long journey and A rewarding one but I am glad it is soon over (for a time). I am only taking a break for a few years and then I would like to get a Master of Arts in Christian Education so I can feel better equipped to serve the church as a minister to children and their families.

It seems many things are changing (very quickly). I'm not sure i've experienced a lot of change in my life but it all seems to be coming at once. It goes to show that the only constant thing is Christ. He never changes, He always remains the same. He is a rock to cling to when all else seems to be washed away.

Some of the change is exciting. For one, to think I could be a dad in a year or two is really exciting. I have been looking forward to that since I was a kid. However, some change is eye opening. It goes to show that nothing is guaranteed in life except the truth of Christ and His love.

Above all I am blessed and joyful because of who Christ is and how He has changed my life and continues to do so. My greatest plea is an echo of what John the Baptist said about Jesus..."He must increase, I must decrease." John 3:30.

Wishing I Could be a better blogger

2009-03-21T06:53:00.001-07:00

Sitting in class right now...during a break of course...and realizing I haven't blogged again in a while. I promise to be better once I am no longer in school. Actually, school seems to be my excuse for a lot of things. I plan to begin writing a few books I've been thinking about once school is through. I plan to clean my car once I've graduated. And I have much work to do around the house once school is over. So...I promise to be better in just a few short weeks. I graduate May 15th of this year.

Backpacking Trip

2009-02-26T16:25:00.000-08:00

My friends Nick and Evan and myself are going to the Cohutta Wilderness the first of next week on a three day backpacking trip where we will be packing in 5 miles and set up camp for one day and come out the 3rd day. We are excited. I try and go once a year and am excited to be going. I'll try and post some pics once we're back.

Seeya!

Bible Map

2009-02-19T15:58:00.001-08:00

Just found a very cool resource for study. Check it out.

Biblemap.org

Are you Left brain or Right brain

2009-02-04T08:36:00.000-08:00

I ran across this interesting quiz today. I usually d o not do things like this because I think they ar emostly hoakey. this one asked good questions that I do believe would be telling as to which side of the brain is used most. Enjoy

Standing in line

2008-12-18T13:12:00.000-08:00

I was standing in line the other day at the post office. Mind you, its the post office around lunch time in December. People are in a hurry. But at the same time there is a decent sized line that everyone there (with the same hectic type schedule) has to endure.

You may not know this about me, but I am a self professed people watcher. And I would say a pretty reflective one, meaning I usually come up with a reason for how people act.

This particular day, in this particular line, were your typical line stander-iners. Here they are in no particular order...

The "I am busier than everyone else here" lady. (not always a lady, but this day it was)

The "You are going to do things my way" elderly man.

The "I'm frustrated with you, old man" teller.

The patient but impatient person.

The mom with her hands full.

The me.

The lady who helped the mom with her hands full.

Many types of people but here's the lesson I learned...

I was very intent on analyzing the flaw of all the different people but was surprised by the good. How did people see me? How would I be categorized in someone else's list? The quiet judgmental looker on? The truth is all people have the capacity to be good or bad as the world defines it. I was looking at all the "bad" and found some "good." And the also is when God looks at all those people outside of Christ's redemption, He sees the bad. Christ sees the need for His vicarious atonement.

I had the answer...and only smiled and said hello to the teller. Whether people are good or bad in man's eyes, they are apart from God without Christ. I am no longer apart from God because of Christ and said nothing, whose really bad here?

In Christ

Derrick

Wedding and Such

2008-11-23T06:27:00.000-08:00

My good friend Stephen was married yesterday. I am so excited for him. He has been an awesome friend for a long time. We have known each other since kindergarten but didn't become friends until highschool. For some reason we didn't like each other in middle school. We were on a youth trip and were making fun of each other...I cried. Funny where things can turn up, now he is my best friend. I was able to be his best man in the wedding and hope I did as good of a job as he did for me. I will be praying for Stephen and Lindsey Wolfe and hope you will too. Allison and I are still in Florida where the wedding was and my family is down here to. We went to Daytona last night and played an intense game of miniature golf and we are headed to St. Augustine today. It should prove to be a lot of fun.

In Christ

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2008-11-18T11:46:00.000-08:00

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2008-11-18T11:08:00.000-08:00

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Chuck Norris doesn't have a chin...

2008-11-18T10:52:00.000-08:00

A lot of information is out there on the internet about Chuck Norris. I have to admit, he's one of my all time favorite actors. I remember my dad and brothers and I being so excited about walker texas ranger coming on each week. And I loved the movie Sidekicks also starring Chuck. He recently endorsed republican candidate, Mike Huckabee during the campaigning season and even traveled with Huckabee to get the word out. Chuck is also known to be a believer in Christ. All that said, I found this site today chucknorrisfacts.com. I had heard about it but just recently went to it to see all the fun things said about Mr. Norris. Just thought I would share it.

PS - My favorite Chuck Norris fact is ... Chuck Norris doesn't have a chin behind his beard, only another fist.

The Peasant Princess

2008-11-12T08:30:00.000-08:00

This fun game was designed by Mars Hill Church for their sermon series on the Song of Songs. Play the game and visit their sites to learn more.

Contend for the truth

2008-11-11T13:01:00.000-08:00

I thought you might like to hear a sermon I preached in an adult meeting at New Georgia Baptist Church from the book of Jude.

In Class Today

2008-10-31T10:46:00.000-07:00

In class tonight

2008-10-21T17:00:00.000-07:00

In Class

2008-10-21T11:10:00.000-07:00

I'm in class today until 9:30 pm. I like school but am ready for a break...May here I come!

Have a blessed day in Christ!

Zeke Fielder 2

2008-10-17T11:15:00.000-07:00

I told you I would post some pictures of my new puppy, Zeke.

Not Gonna Kiss Again Until I'm Married (November 29, 2006)

2008-10-07T14:56:00.000-07:00

(This is a previous post from another blog)

Wow, I cannot tell you enough how shameful I feel because it has been so long since my last post. I hope all is well with you all and that your Thanksgiving was great.

Now that i've apologized for being a slacker, lets get to the topic of this blog.

Notice the title. Some of you may or may not know that Allison and I do not kiss and will not until Pastor Jim says, "you may now kiss the bride." I was told last night that this was weird. The truth is, I know it's weird, that's part of the reason I want to do it. But the interesting thing is not that people tell me how weird it is but really more that they can tend to get offended. One person told me that she kissed before she was married. She said it as if by my saying that I was not going to that I really said "anyone who does is a sinner." The truth is, we are all sinners (Romans 3:23). Who am I to say that kissing before marriage is a sin, the truth is, for me it might become a sin. It may start off innocently, but it could turn into something it was never intended to become.

The fact is, i'm not saying "I'm better than you are" by not kissing. I'm really saying that i'm worse, I might not be able to control myself once in the situation, so i'll do it before it ever has the opportunity to happen. I know myself too well.
So what about you? when it comes to everyday things, do you know your weaknesses? Do you plan for them to happen and have a plan to battle them? Or do you easily continue to give in to their call?

Especially in relationships, is God honored in all that you and your bf/gf do and say and think? If not, then you may need to come up with some plan to battle that before it comes, not once in the middle. You may need to say that you will not kiss your gf/bf before you are married, but you don' have to say that. Please just know that our Lord desires all of our lives. Every part. Even our time alone with our bf/gf. How do you expect to show your love for Christ in anyway outside of Church if you cannot control the things you do outside of Church?

Just remember what Paul told the Romans in chapter 12. "I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship."

We presnt our bodies as sacrifices to him by saying, I will not do this or that so that I can honor Him." or "Lord, I will not kiss until my wedding day so that i can be sure to honor you with that."

I hope all is well. Keep checking back frequently, I plan to write these much more often.

Solus Christus,
Derrick

Repentance (How?) - (Sept. 7, 2006)

2008-10-07T14:54:00.000-07:00

Ever wonder what it truly means to repent? How do you even go about repenting? Truthfully, i've asked the same question, recently. John Loftness, a Pastor at Covenant Life Church in Gaithersburg, Maryland has provided a practical guide to reaching true repentance. The following is The Path of Repentance and has graciously been permitted to us to use on this blog. Wherever you find yourself when reading this blog, read with diligent focus on how you must repent of the sin in your life.

Step 1: Pray

Establish your dependence on God by praying for the Holy Spirit's help in this process.

Step 2: Identify the Sin

Define its practice in biblical terms.
Define your heart's motive for the sin in biblical terms.
Define the lie-the false belief-that creatied this motive and its acts.

Step 3: Embrace the Gospel

Meditate on how your sin offends God. Cultivate sorrow.
Meditate on the fact that God sent Jesus to die in your place to overcome the offense this sin created.
Pray. Admit your sin to God and ask Him to forgive you and to account this sin to Jesus' death on your behalf.

Step 4: Take Steps to Stop

Collect on paper what the Bible says about your sin, its consequences, your forgiveness in Christ, and the Spirit's power at work in you to change. Memorize the most helpful passages.
Purpose to change your thinking and behavior.
purpose to change behavior that increases temptation:

Places you go
People with whom you interact
Things you look at or listen to
Words you say
Confess your sin to those you've offended and seek their forgiveness. Make restitution if necessary.

Step 5: Replace Your Sin with Righteousness

"Put on Christ." If you're a Christian, you are joined to Jesus Christ. His Spirit dwells within you. You can think and act as He does!
Identify thoughts you can think or actions you take to replace:

The lie with truth
The sinful motive with a true motive for something else that pleases God
Sinful behavior with righteous behavior

Step 6: Seek Fellowship as a Means of Grace

If you haven't already, inform godly friends or a pastor of your sin and the process you are engaging in to change.
Ask for their evaluation of the conclusions you've drawn, and adjust where needed.
Make yourself accountable to walk along the specific path you've outlined above.

Step 7: Review

Steps 1-5 daily.
Step 6 for regular accountability.

This may seem difficult at first glance. The fact that it is never easy to kill something off in our lives which is what we are doing. Yet we find our strength only in Christ. You must devote yourself to these practices or something similar if you truly desire for that sin to no longer have any control over your life.

Have a great day today as you follow Christ more closely!

In Christ Alone,
Derrick

The Path of Repentance is an appendix in Joshua Harris' book Sex is not the Problem (Lust is). It was used by permission.

Harris, Joshua. Sex is not the Problem (Lust is). (Oregon: Multnomah Publishers, 2003)

Secret Sin (Aug. 17, 2006)

2008-10-07T14:53:00.000-07:00

(This is a previous post from another blog)

You know, its the little thing that you do that no one knows about. Its like a little monster rearing its little head every now and again. And it says "come on, have a bite, just a little. One time won't hurt. You can ask forgiveness when you're done."

You know what i'm talking about don't you? Perhaps now, there is something like this in your life. The question is "should we continue in sin that grace may abound?" And just like Paul says, I echo, "NO", "by no means."

It's time we quit telling ourselves the lies that we so often turn to rather than the truth of scripture. The truth is, no sin honors God. The truth is, the Bible talks of not even a hint of sexual immorality, and to flee the devil, and that we need to hunger for truth and righteousness.

Lets look at a brief passage of scripture. The text is Romans 6. Paul begins with the same question, "1What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? 2 By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it?"

Please read the entire chapter, but lets just stay here for this post. This very passage leaves no question of the problem and what needs to be true of us, but how do we arrive there? The thing is, we cannot arrive there, we are dependent on something, the death of Christ. Paul says that just as He was raised, we too walk in newness of life. We beckon the Lord to help us die to sin and live in Him. this may not be happening because you may not know the Lord. that first needs to happen, the only way you can have life is through Christ's atoning death on the cross. you must believe that your sin was reckoned to Him and His righteousness was reckoned to you. He is your only way.

Maybe you need to be reminded of this fact today, then the secret sin will be confronted with the God who hates it, and sent His son to die for it.

Because, "How can we who have died to sin still live in it?"

You can't

Solus Christus

Derrick

Cleaning House (Aug. 27, 2007)

2008-10-07T14:38:00.000-07:00

(This is a previous post from another blog)

If your life were represented by a house, what would it look like?

You know, ratty on the outside and nearly unlivable on the inside. Would it be torn to shreds because of life experience. Or so dirty on the inside that you'd be embarrassed for anyone to know what goes on inside?

I know people who have beautiful houses...I also know people with beautiful houses, on the outside. They live in a subdivision that requires the outside to be presented in a certain manner. And at the same time they cannot allow visitors because they are so embarrassed at their mess on the inside.

If someone were to look into your life, would they see a nice house needing a few fixer upers here and there or would they be disgusted with the filth that lies with in.

Again there are others who work so hard to clean the house and maintain its cleanliness while there attitude stinks and they fail to have meaningful relationships with other people because they are so busy making sure their stuff looks good enough.

The problem is, we need major renovation. You may know, my weekends are booked until 2017 with work that needs to be finished in our house. The thing is, Christ needs to come in and completely strip out our "houses." A quick fix by us will not do. Sweeping the trash under the rug will one day be discovered. Christ has changed us completely. Or needs to if He has not already. And therefore, we should live our lives as if they had been changed. Your house gets gutted and completely refinished, you will appreciate the new much more and strive to keep it in nice working order.

Stop just fixing up the outside, clean what's on the inside.

In Christ Alone,
Derrick

Response to Teenage Workforce

2008-10-07T14:25:00.000-07:00

Below is the comment I received from Jeff Whiting who's main purpose in life is ensuring teenage workforce success. Jeff, I appreciate your response, I never imagined anyone would respond much less an expert in the field. My goal in posting the questionnaire of sorts was to get my students thinking about "big people things." I am afraid that most Christian teenagers today have fallen into a worldly mindset concerning work (as well as many other issues). I am a product of starting to work at a young age. I made $200 cutting grass at age 10 and have been doing something to earn money since. So you may be able to understand my frustration when students are lackadaisical in work ethic even if its in their school work. Here is Jeff's comment and I would like to comment following:

Hello Derrick,

My name is Jeff Whiting and I am the manager for WAVES for Teenage Workforce Success. I would like to take a stab at question # 1.

Its all based on “Maturity” which can vary widely with a young age group. Some 14 years olds seem to be quite a bit more squared away and work ready than an 18 year old! Some of that can be seen in the application and interview process, such as;
1. Is the application complete, legible and have relevant experiences. Even a 14 year old can demonstrate that they can work within a team environment by their volunteering, club, sports and church activities. Babysitting and/or yard work can demonstrate work ethic.
2. Do they have references from their jobs, clubs, etc. that you can follow up with. Also personal references. The young person that is able to and proactively provides this information is demonstrating real responsibility.
3. During the interview, ask open ended questions. Can they give you full sentence answers?
4. Do they make eye contact and smile? A very hard thing to teach and if they aren’t doing this during the interview don’t plan of them doing it after they are employed.
5. How did they dress? You are seeing their best at the interview... No matter how they look.
6. Were they early for the interview?

I would judge their maturity and mental capacity, not on their age but based on the above experience.

This is what we do. Help business and owners get a better understanding of the new management approach that is needed for engaging today's teens.

Hope this helps.

Jeff.

All of the above are values I feel were analogous of me and many of my friends when I was a teenager. I came to realize that even I was not the stereotype, I just thought I was. I thought everyone was just like me. What's interesting is how these principles for good work ethic are not only lacking in teenage workers but teenage Christians as well. I wonder what you think, why do today's teenage Christians seem to lack these qualities? Or do you even disagree?

Let me know!

Zeke Fielder

2008-10-06T11:40:00.000-07:00

I am officially 27 years old as of 8:35 pm yesterday. Beyond that, this weekend has been eventful. Beginning Thursday, Allison and I got a new puppy (picture coming soon). We named him Zeke, he's cute. I rescued him from the pound and we are continuing rescuing him. He has a fungal breakout on his hind feet and tail. We are treating that. He also had a really bad case of fleas, some advantage helped with that. Friday evening, we went to eat with Allison's family for my birthday. Saturday, we spent most of the day trying to get out back yard ready for Zeke to be able to leave. Sunday, we had lunch with my parents after church. I am blessed to have such a wonderful family, such a wonderful wife and now a cute new puppy.

Have a great day.

Derrick

Pages Review (Sept. 4, 2007)

2008-09-30T14:07:00.000-07:00

(Previous post from another blog)

Occasionally I want to do music reviews for the benefit of you guys who are looking for God honoring music to add to your iPod or collection. I felt it only appropriate for my first review to be of the newest CD in which Allison and I invested, Pages by Shane and Shane. This album is splendid! The Shanes have outdone themselves with their ability to have a distinctive sound yet add so many new dimensions to each song. The words and music lead you through the magnificent journey on which each song takes you. What is particularly exhilarating about this album is its confrontation of the listener with the solid gospel message of Christ. Embracing Accusation and Vision of You both confront the idea that we are good enough to warrant salvation and change in our lives in which we can honor God, the Shanes claim through song that Christ is the one who changes. Each song delivers the passion that the Shanes have for loving God. Burn us Up relives the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego who were thrown into a fiery furnace, their love for God and devotion to Him was so strong that they were willing to burn rather than bow to another god. Not only did they desire to be burned in a fire but they really had a passion to be consumed with who God is. We Love You Jesus is a simple song to Jesus expressing love to Him for all He's done. All in all the album is a must have. It has encouraged me immensely.Solus ChristusDerrick
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Teenage Workforce (Sept. 11, 2007)

2008-09-30T14:04:00.000-07:00

(Previous post from another blog respond if you like or do not respond at all)

I want to do another Q & A session again. I will post your answers and reply.

QUESTIONS:

When is it too soon for someone to have a job and supply their own income?

When is someone too old not to have their own income?

What would you do if you had to supply income to your family (because of hardship or death or injury to a family member)?

You can answer all three or only 2 or only 1. And of course you do not even have to answer any.

In Christ, Derrick

Looking Forward to Prince Caspian (Sept. 21, 2007)

2008-09-30T14:02:00.000-07:00

(Previous post from another blog)

So far in my reading of the Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis, I have been enthralled with the great story of Prince Caspian. Therefore I am ecstatic that this is the second installment by Disney in theaters May 2008.

Fireproof

2008-09-27T16:31:00.000-07:00

Awesome!

From Cancer to Son

2008-09-26T09:17:00.000-07:00

This is a previous post from my other blog... October 9 2007

"I was a cancer, You have made me a son." -Downhere

Ever have those days when you recall every sin you have ever committed? Or at least 2/3 of those sins. I had a morning like that today. I recalled every wrong thing I have been guilty of and was just down in the dumps. I felt like saying, "Why do I even try to pretend? ", or "how can I teach and preach and expect anyone to truly listen." There is a new song by Shane and Shane called Embracing Accusations where Shane B. recalls an event where he felt like Satan was rightly accusing him of failing to "abide" in Christ (Galatians 3:10-14). But he then recalled verse 13 that says, "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us—for it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree'". What a glorious truth, as Christ's child I am redeemed by Christ, He became a curse for me. I like the way Downhere put it (above). The truth is, I was really bad off, a cancer, a sinner, wretched in God's sight and to men. I was without hope. But-praise God for that conjunction-because I have believed on the truth of God's grace through the provision of Jesus Christ, the righteous who took on a curse for us, I am not only forgiven but counted His heir, a child of His, His son.

That goes against a gospel that quite a few people preach. I need to be aware of how lost I would be without Christ and how wretched my sin is in His eyes. Thanks be to God who made Christ to become sin that I might be free. Never forget.

Solus Christus
Derrick

ESV Study Bible!!!

2008-09-18T14:33:00.000-07:00

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Forever Grateful

2008-01-17T07:31:00.000-08:00

I haven't written in quite some time. I am very sorry, as you can imagine life has been flying by with great fervor. Allison and I have been married now for a little over 61/2 months. These past 61/2 months have been the absolute best of my life. I could not have asked for more in a wife. Allison is kind, generous, caring, loving, intelligent, selfless, serving, she encourages my leading as the husband should. I could go on and on describing how wonderful my beautiful wife is but I have work that must be accomplished. I basically wanted to catch everyone up to speed.
As of October I am 26 and beginning to understand that life really is fleeting. I want to hold on to each moment as long as I can. I have had a sometimes overwhelming fear that one day I'm going to wake up and be 50 and wonder where my life went.
I am now also the full time director of Children's Ministries at my home church, New Georgia Baptist Church. I work with the Children specifically and with the youth as well. I love the people and truly feel called by God to serve them and most of all to serve Him at NGBC. I also found out that I will finish my graduate degree (Master of Divinity) from Luther Rice Seminary in Lithonia, GA in December of this year. I am super excited to see how God will use Allison and I. Christmas flew by but was very different than any other. Many things have changed in my family (besides me getting married and moving out). I long to spend time with my family more than I realized I would. It is hard however now that we have to divide time we spend between two families. I have really had to learn how to adjust to that dynamic of being married, but I have learned to enjoy it. Most of all, I love just spending time with Allison. Talking and growing more in love. I am forever grateful to God that He would allow such a thing as marriage and that He would give me such a wonderful person to be married to. What impresses me most is Allison's love for the Lord. I hope to write again sooner than it took this time. However, I'm not making any promises because I am taking 15 hours of classes on top of working full time at the church.

In Christ Alone,
Derrick S. Fielder

Not Disabilities at All

2007-12-05T08:14:00.000-08:00

I am amazed at by this story. It is a story of musical excellence beyond belief. As much as I love music and am often so inspired by good music [especially God honoring music], this story amazes me because of a great love of a Father, reminiscent of God's love for us.

Elf

2007-11-29T06:19:00.000-08:00

check out my elf dance

Can I Hold Your Hand?

2007-08-22T15:19:00.000-07:00

Here is the song I wrote to Allison. Enjoy!!!

The Dancing Fellers

2007-08-09T13:10:00.000-07:00

This is a video of some guys from NGBC who won this summer's "no talent talent show"...watch and you'll see why. Enjoy!

Can I hold Your hand

2007-08-03T13:32:00.000-07:00

I was going to post the song that I wrote for Allison for our wedding day. But something went wrong in my getting it onto my comp. Stay tuned...its coming soon!

Married and Loving it

2007-07-23T08:51:00.000-07:00

Well hello all...or one..or just me (whoever reads this thing).

I am married and have been for more than three weeks. I thoroughly enjoy it especially when I get to go home for lunch. This will not happen for much longer as Allison is a teacher and will be in the classroom for lunch but...I do enjoy it now. Our honeymoon was unreal. We have been home for a week and have been working on getting our house completed. I will try and keep everyone up-to-date.

In Christ

Derrick

three

2007-06-27T12:42:00.000-07:00

Well ladies and gentleman,

It is officially only three days until I am married. I am super stoked and cannot believe it has gotten here so fast. The next post will follow our beach trip, so i'll have tons to talk about!!! Seeya then!

Thirty Days

2007-05-31T12:48:00.000-07:00

I thought it would be appropriate to post a blog in commemoration to the thirty days we have left until the wedding. I love Allison now more than ever and am super excited. Only one month to go. So, i'm going to test to see how often she actually reads this thing by letting you all (and her if she reads it) have the chance to find out what I have gotten Allison for a wedding day gift. The gift comes in three sections. I'm only going to let you know 1/3 of what that may be.

Here it is...

Two extra large beach towels with her/our monogram on them. These say "James", ours will have AFD or our names monogrammed where "James" is.

I love you Allison, but do not think you will look here, that's why I posted it.

Licensed!!!

2007-05-28T06:27:00.000-07:00

This was a joyous Day!!! By the grace of God!!

forty days and counting

2007-05-21T06:57:00.000-07:00

yesterday was a busy day...

Not only was it graduate recognition day at both NGBC and FHBC, but last night was my licensing service where my church agrees that I am called to ministry, exciting! And not only did yesterday mark only 41 days left until marriage, it was the one year anniversary of our deciding to court and see if we were compatible for marriage. One year later and we are only 40 days away from doing that very thing. I know I have not written since 60 days and am terribly sorry. As you can probably imagine, life has been extremely busy. We are mailing invitations today so we've been spending the last few days doing that. The house is no where near ready to live in so every moment I have to spare is being spent working on the house.
But I must say that I am more in love with Allison today than yesterday and cannot wait until we are married and beginning our lives together. I know she is equally excited. Some people say that the 30 day mark before is where we will see some of the arguments begin to arise due to stress. I hope not but I am ready to communicate and glorify Christ above our desires.

On another note, we have decided on our honeymoon destinations. Thanks to Allison's aunts and uncles, we are going to the Bahamas on a cruise with Carnival Cruise Lines, on the Sensation. We are super stoked and grateful. We get back early on Thursday and will be near Disney World and have decided to go Thursday and Friday there! I LOVE Disney!!!

All in all we are excited and hope that you will join us in the embarkment of our life together on June 30th, 2007 at 2:30 pm.

Thirty times two

2007-05-01T06:28:00.000-07:00

There are only sixty more days left until I will be a married man. As the day approaches (very quickly) we grow more anxious. It is a very exciting time as you may be able to imagine. Stress is also setting in. We still have quite a bit to do to the house, but this is not where the stress lies. The details of the ceremony have proven to be stressful though neither of us has an idea of what exactly we want. Perhaps that's the cause of the stress. We think we're just going to put it into the hands of the florist and the caterer to take care of their stuff and I believe Kim Messer is going to help with some ideas. There are just a lot of things to think about. Also, in trying to know what to do with bringing all of our existing stuff together has been thought provoking to say the least. Things like bank accounts, cell phones, health insurance, etc...

On another note, we have received many of our gifts already, which is so exciting. Allison had her first shower given by the ladies at work, who have a huge regard for Allison. We received some very nice things and we are very gracious. I would go into detail but i'm a guy and I do not know the details...sorry. We also had our shower given by NGBC and I was blown away by the great gifts we received. My church home is so dear to me and I appreciate each thoughtful gift given. I am sure Allison will grow as fond of this church as I am. I know that they all have welcomed her as one of us.

I wish I could write more, but I must get to work.

In Christ Alone,

Derrick

Sixty Seven

2007-04-24T11:40:00.000-07:00

67 Days more!!!

Revisiting the Engagement 70 days until the wedding

2007-04-21T07:06:00.000-07:00

This can also be read on our wedding website

Our Engagement

You may have already heard the story or may have not had that pleasure yet, this is the beautiful story of love and devotion that is our engagement.

The story began in my mind quite a time before the event took place but lets go to Thursday, December 14th. I take my third hour trip to a small Jewelry store in Newnan, Ga. At Morgan Jewelers, Jeff Morgan was kind and oh so helpful. This time I was picking up the beautiful diamond ring that Allison had picked out at another Jewelry store. She had no idea that Newnan was my destiny that night and that my heart was devoted to asking for her hand in Marriage twenty four hours from that time.

The diamond ring was magnificent, I could not wait to slip it onto her finger.

Fastforward to the next night after a grueling day of having the diamond and thinking in my mind, hoping that night would be perfect. She was radiant that night, she's always gorgeous, but that night I saw her anew, she would become my wife to be that night, my fiance. We drove to Canoe, located in Vinings, Ga. It however was not quite that easy to find right away, we got lost...but finally found it, only a few minutes late.

The following was set up by me but I will try and write it from her perspective as she did not expect what was coming.

We had my car vallet parked and enter the rustic yet elegant Canoe only to find our table was not ready. The hostess asked if we would like to go out into the garden located along the Chattahoochee River, we agreed. After asking how to get there we entered the garden, an open area with a rocked walkway. The air was chilly but at five thirty this day the sun was just going down providing enough sunlight to keep us warm enough. Also located in this courtyard of sorts were three things, two large party tents being prepared; one to the right and one to the left, the third thing was a small table covered with a white linen table cloth with a candle and a folded pice of paper with RESERVED typed on it. "I wonder what that table is for" I say. We continued walking and pass the table. I say, "I have to confess, that table is reserved for us, you wanna sit for a minute?" We went and sat and I try to muster up some explanation and say that "I set this up because I wanted to be outside when I asked you this question."

You are here today because you know the question I asked and her answer. She says that the proposal was perfect and that the night was wonderful. I agree that it was wonderful, it is a day that I will always remember. We went in and ate an amazing meal! And continued on to The Fabulous Fox and saw The Nutcracker. The night was truly amazing but my favorite part was hearing her call everyone afterwards and telling the story in her words with the excitement. I am truly preparing to be with the one that God had for me all along. My heart jumps each time I see her and I cannot wait for the day we're married!

81 Days

2007-04-10T07:33:00.000-07:00

1981 is the year in which I was born. Allison did not exist yet, but I believe that God already intended for her to be my wife. Was this the reason she was born? No, nor was I born for her. We were born for God's glory. He just saw fit to allow us to glorify Him together as husband and wife. In 81 days that plan will finally come to fruition. I'm ecstatic. She is too. This weekend was awesome, actually the whole past week has been amazing. She was on spring break and I go to see her everyday. I'm actually having withdrawals this week. I love her with all of my heart. But Friday, Saturday, and Sunday were spent together. Friday and Saturday were work days on the house. We accomplished quite a bit but there is still tons to do. And Sunday was Easter of course and we went to all the family stuff on both sides which was very exciting. The weekend ended with she and I looking into each others eyes and being so overjoyed and a bit overwhelmed with emotion we began to cry. Not a boohoo but just tears. I just couldn't help myself. I began to think about how much I love her and how I cannot wait to spend my life with her. The tears just came, then she began to tear up too. Allison, I love you more than my feeble words can describe, I cannot wait to begin the rest of our life.

Derrick

87

2007-04-04T11:21:00.000-07:00

DAYS LEFT!!!

93

2007-03-29T06:30:00.000-07:00

Man, time is flying by. I can't believe it's already only 93 days left. I am super stoked. I cannot wait. I grow in my love for Allison each and every day. I cannot wait until we are married. Maybe i'll get to see her tonight. She came to church last night and heard me speak. It is a joyous occasion to get to speak and it is a joyous occasion to get to see Allison, but to get to preach while she's there, inexplicable.

Allison, my dear, I love you with every fiber of my being!!! I cannot wait to be your husband!

In Christ,
Derrick

100

2007-03-22T11:53:00.000-07:00

That's right, today is the day, the one hundred days left mark. There are only 100 days left until I will be a married man. I sincerely love her more today than I did yesterday and grow to love her more each and every day. I remember when people would boast of their love. I would be so happy for them yet at the same time be discouraged because I had yet to find that kind of love, almost cheapening the love I would one day find. Please, do not cheapen the love that will one day encompass you. Use this time to pray for that one you will one day celebrate "100" with. That being said...I have a secret prize to give to Allison tonight. It's not much but this post will continue once I have given it to her.

Edit:: I gave Allison the secret gift. Here it is...

That's right, we celebrated our 100 days left tonight at 3:TEN (NGBC's College Bible Study).

The above picture is a Kroger cookie cake inscribed with a giant 100.

I am sooooo excited. I hope she is as well. I am pretty sure she is. Also, we have our invitations. I will post a picture soon!

In Christ Alone,

Derrick

5:41 pm

2007-03-20T13:58:00.000-07:00

Here I am, sitting at my desk after hours. I am wasting my time really and should be ashamed. I thought, however that I haven't blogged in a couple of days and should do so. Unfortunately my mind is not working too well right now and the blogging will have to wait. I did want to say that I will be blogging on my wedding blog on Thursday. "Why Thursday" you might ask. Well Thursday just so happens to be only 100 days left until I will be a married man. So check that out on Thursday...or Friday, or Saturday or March 11th of next year. I do not really care, as long as you check it out.

Until then...

Derrick
(the pic above was the 10th one I took, I just didn't like the others)

Project Relocation

2007-03-13T11:43:00.000-07:00

I hope you enjoyed my post regarding our mission register (if anyone reads this). We went the next day for Leah's Birthday lunch at The Cheesecake Factory and went from there to do some more registering. Notice that I took Williams Sonoma off the registry page because we did not find anything there. So we are now only registered at PotteryBarn, Target, and Macy's.

Enough of all that, I have to tell you about what we did yesterday. It is very exciting and I feel like we've finally accomplished something (regarding our house). We cleaned out our future house to an extent and are going back today to work a little longer. I am so excited because it finally feels like something is getting accomplished. I love the house and we are in a good situation, just nothing has been done yet. I go over there from time to time to try and accomplish something, but my knowledge is limited as to how I am to fix things in a house. But yesterday we were able to relocate some of Mr. Crumley's "treasures" to his "shop." It took most of the evening but it is looking better in what will be our family room. There are still many times left to move but it just felt so good to get it out of there.

I've determined to learn how to do many of the things that need to be done so as to show that I am willing to do whatever it takes to get that house ready by the end of May. Yes, I know that we will not move in until June (atleast I will not), but we want to have a time to try and get Allison settled in before hand.

Anyway, it was cool getting to work right along side my beloved. I love her with all of my heart. We work well together and hopefully together we can get everything ready in our house!

Have a great day!!!

Mission Register

2007-03-10T05:54:00.000-08:00

Last night Allison and I embarked on a mission, mission register. We began at Macy's. Special agent Myra was our contact there. With scan gun in hand we began by registering for our everyday dishware (Allison already has fine china). Next we went to the bedding section to find comfort. We registered for two down pillows, oh so comfy. Next we ran into a bit of a problem, our gun stopped working momentarily and would not allow us to register for the oh so comfortable down comforter. After some frustration and banging of the scan gun, another consultant ran to our rescue.
From there we went on to the cookware. It was here that we found the things we will us to ensure our survival. We registered for knives, pots and pans, blender, and other odds and ends. When finished we gave back our scan gun and received some free items as a thank you from Macy's.

From there our hunger began to distract us so we stopped by for some delicious chinese food.

After consuming the Burbon chicken, Teriaki Chicken, and Lo Mein noodles we went on to Target. Target also gave nice free stuff as a thank you. It was here that we bought alot of odds and ends. We got all our kitchen tools, and or bath towels and alot of household cleaning items. Oh, and we registered for the boardgame Life and mexican train dominoes.

Beginning at 3:30 in the afternoon and finishing around 9:45 pm, Allison and I accomplished our mission. All we have to do now is register for a few things at Pottery Barn.

Registry:
Macy's
Target
Pottery Barn

Solus Christus

Derrick

Take a look at MY shame

2007-03-08T22:28:00.000-08:00

I kissed dating goodbye, so did my fiance. Yet, I feel ashamed. Let me explain. Allison began early on to read books and decide how she was to honor God in her dating life. I'm talking middle school. I, on the other hand, did not realize this need until college age. I had similar thoughts that Pastor Josh Harris held in I Kissed Dating Goodbye while I was in High School, but I would be a liar if said that I was not consumed with girls and trying to get them to be impressed with me, a big liar. As a matter of fact, I was still completely enthralled with girls, they just tended to be my friends instead of random girls. It is from this that I find my shame. Please do not take me wrong, Christ takes the shame. Yet I truly wish that I had held the same views as Allison. I wish that I had held the relationship in such high esteem as she did. I'm not sure of all of Allison's struggles, i'm not sure how difficult it was for her to make these decisions and hold to them. I do know that I did not have the same ones and now feel guilty that I did not pray more for her, all along. I am sorry that I did not always trust God to provide Allison for me.

Allison was always the one for me:

I am either naive enough or just trusting enough to believe that Allison has always been the one that God intended for me. Now that I have found her, I am sorry that I did not trust God all along. I questioned whether He even had someone for me. I questioned the one's He said "no" to (or He allowed them to say "no" to me). I am sorry that I did not trust Him more. I am also sorry that I did not wait more patiently for her. She is exactly what I need. We are perfect for each other. To try and be real and not wanting to be too cliche or movie quotable, she completes me. (I know, I know its cheesy, but its true).

I feel that my impatience was a sin against her and most of all against God.

There's one out there for you:

What I am not saying is that you are in the wrong for liking someone. I just had to go ahead and get that out there. I even think that dating is okay (for responsible 16+) as long as you are honoring God and trying to find out who your future mate might be. But to date around because you think you might like someone, or that they could one day meet your criteria (do you even have criteria?) is no way to honor God in the marriage relationship He will one day give you. The Bible says not to defile the marriage bed, an impatience with God's provision of a mate could be defiling it.

I am a virgin. I have kissed inappropriately (it was all inappropriate because none of those I kissed were going to be my wife, they are all someone else's wife now). But the fact is, I could be very prideful about this accomplishment. I am saying that I am still ashamed and have felt like I let Allison down and God down. (I wholeheartedly believe that we cannot try and excuse any of our sin.). The truth is, God has someone for you. Right now! they may be waiting like Allison did, they may be impatient like me and distrusting of God. They may be doing whatever they please with whomever they please. But how will they feel when they finally meet you and know that you waited for them, completely? Will they see that you cared so much for them to wait or that you were too busy living for yourself.

Calling all middle schoolers and 9th graders:

I am primarily writing for any middle schoolers and/or ninth graders that might read this. I want to encourage you. You might be feeling those deep feelings for someone right now. That's good. God gave those feelings for a reason, yet He does not give us permission to act upon them in an improper way. His call to "be holy as your heavenly Father is holy" still stands. Our feelings do not get to be a valid excuse. In the midst of those feelings, thank God for them. Thank God for the one to whom you want to express those feelings. Pray for them, pray for them to make good decisions and to honor God especially regarding their marriage. Pray for their husband/wife (it might be you, it might not). Pray for your husband/wife. Pray that they are more focused this moment on God than on if you are out there.

We must live for Christ. He must be our main focus. Like someone, that's okay. You can even tell them (as long as they know that you only want to pray for them at this time), just do not make my mistake and get wrapped up in the deep emotion of it and dishonor God. He deserves our all, our future spouse (whom you may have never met yet) deserves our best.

I hope this was an encouragement!

Solus Christus

Derrick

Allison is sitting at the other computer

2007-02-28T17:46:00.000-08:00

Allison is sitting at the other computer, so I thought it would be fun to write about her while she's over there not paying any attention to me.

She is pretty
She is smart
She is funny
She has an amazing heart
She loves me for some reason
This is the winter season

Okay, well maybe I will not try poetry anymore. I love Allison Elaine Crumley with all of my heart. I enjoy spending time with her and am thankful to get to spend even more time with her now. Tonight was cool, to see her mingle with the students here. To have her smile encourage me as I teach God's truth. I am sorry that this takes her away from others that she loves but I am thankful at the same time. Every time I see her, it feels like my heart might explode because it can't hold in my love for her.

I Love You Allison!

Blogging Mania

2007-02-23T06:55:00.000-08:00

Hey guys and girls (or whoever reads this thing)

I am just so excited that I have been keeping this thing up. I actually need to update the freshvibe blog too. Maybe I will today. On a different note, I got to spend a few hours with Allison last night again. We've began praying together, aloud. We probably should have been doing that all along. I know I have been praying for her and been prayed for by her for the last year and a month but we have now begun to pray togehter.

I want to us this to segway into the need for prayer in life all together and also in your relationships.

Prayer is real simple, its about God. It's for God and for us to get in line with God. Why do we pray? For God's glory, because He told us to, and because Christ modeled it for us. In what is commonly known as the Lord's prayer (Matt. 6:9-13, Luke 11:2-4) Jesus models for us what our prayer should be like.

God is high and holy-we need to recognize in prayer that God is holy, "Our father, who art in heaven, hallowed (holy) be thy name." Basically, God is God, I am not. This is how we begin.
We pray for His kingdom and His will: Prayer is not about what we can get from God. It's not a list of "God do's", God do this, God do that. We pray for His will to be done. "God whatever you want." We also pray for His kingdom. We pray for Him to reign on high in our lives. "On Earth as it is in heaven." Which basically means, "let it be done in my life as you intended it, as it is done in heaven, as the angels would do it."
We pray for His word to be implanted in our lives: "Give us our daily bread" indicates the nourishment we need. Physical nourishment but most of all Spiritual nourishment. God is concerned most for our spiritual condition. The bread is something we pray for to be implanted daily. "Lord, give me a hunger for your word."
We pray for a heart of forgiveness: God forgives and so should we. We need forgiveness, so do those who hurt us.
We pray for hearts not lead astray: Our lives are inclined to sin. It is our nature, we need the strong hand of God to keep us from sin. To pray this means we begin to trust Him for that strength to overcome temptation in our lives. Only God can deliver us from the sin that we will come in contact with. We desperately need HIM.

This transmits into every aspect of our lives but must especially transmit into our relationships. It sounds very cliche but I believe it's very true to say, "the couple that prays together, stays together." If you desire a meaningful relationship and not just some "highschool fling", then pray for God's will to be done in your relationship too.

Soli Deo Gloria (to God alone be the glory)

Derrick

I'm Back

2007-02-22T11:18:00.000-08:00

Hello all,

I am back. We had an excellent time on the slopes and I specifically had a great time with my beautiful bride to be. Hopefully all the cool kids @ FHBC think i'm cool enough to marry Allison.

That brings me to this next topic, maybe some of you guys from FHBC will read this and hopefully it will help explain some stuff. Allison is going to start coming to NGBC every other week on Wednesdays and once a month on Sundays or some semblance of the two. I know that this was discussed among some folks Wednesday night and pretty difficult to palate, or handle. I am so sorry and want each person to understand why this needs to happen now instead of closer to the wedding. This was our decision per my request. So, any anger and resentment should be directed toward me. I do, however, hope to explain to you in a way that will show that there should be no anger and resentment.

Allison has been used mightily:

I hope that you know that I know that Allison has been used greatly by the Lord. I saw this for sure on the Ski trip! Not only is Allison your friend but she is someone to whom you can look up. And she is someone to whom you can look for wisdom and guidance. I do not want to take that away. But I do have to admit that I have been jealous of you for the girls of NGBC, I know that Allison's wisdom and consistent love for Christ is a desperate need that our girls have too. I wanted to state that before I continued in my explanation.

Allison was called to FHBC:

Church is more than Sunday and Wednesday (and if you're like me, everyday of the week). The Church is a daily, moment by moment thing made up only of followers of Christ. You say, "yeah Derrick, duh, we know that!!!" Yes I know, but I have to point that out before I point out that Allison is more than just someone you go to church with, she was called there by God to do what she has been doing faithfully. She has diligently followed the call of God on her life. It has been more than just cool things for her to do, though she does enjoy them. She heard the call of God and prayed and followed His lead.

I have done the same thing. I am not just at NGBC because I grew up there. The Lord has called me to NGBC, it is His desire for me to be there.

Even if you do not know it, you have been called to serve God at your church, its not all about what you can get and how much fun you can have, it is about God's call to "Go and make Disciples...(Matt.28:19-20)."

Allison is now called to NGBC:

As hard as it is to try and understand this and adhere to it, as my wife-to-be, Allison is now called to New Georgia. She knows that she is to now serve NGBC with the same diligence and faithfulness as FHBC. Her move to New Georgia is God's move, not mine, and not even hers.

There must be a period of transition:

In order to honor God the best we can, we have discussed that there must be a period of transition. This transition will serve as a bridge to bring closure to one chapter of her life and a respect and trust built up for the new chapter. This is what we believe will honor God the most. Would you help encourage Allison and I (especially her) during this time? As you can imagine, her desire is to be in both places at both times. FHBC has been Allison's only church home and it is hard for her to begin anew also. You would serve her greatly by understanding the need for this to happen and it would encourage her and perhaps make it less difficult for her.

I am so thankful for the ministry Allison has had at FHBC, had it not been for that, i'm not sure she would be my fiance. I was looking for someone who valued God's people as highly as I did. God gave me someone who valued it more.

In Christ Alone,
Derrick

Snowboarding with Fortified Hills

2007-02-17T12:28:00.000-08:00

Hey guys!!!

Just wanted to rub it in that I am going snowboarding tomorrow with Fortified Hills Baptist Church (Allison's church). I am super duper excited, but not just because I get to go snowboarding. I am also excited because Allison and I will get to be spending three days together. I am so excited. I love her so much.

So here is a picture of what i'll be doing in a couple of days.

I hope you're jealous...well not really. Be back in a couple of days to post again.

In Christ Alone,
Derrick S. Fielder

Wedding Party

2007-02-16T08:23:00.000-08:00

THE WEDDING PARTY

The Bride: Allison Elaine Crumley

The Groom: Derrick Scott Fielder

The Maid of Honor: Kristina Crumley
Sister of the Bride

The Best Man: Stephen Wolfe
Long time friend of the Groom

Bridesmaid: Kathryn Voyles (pictured with Cameron Searle)
Long time friend of the Bride

Bridesmaid: Sarah Stoudt (pictured with "The Divo (Allison's Small group)")
Friend of the Bride

Bridesmaid: Bethany Boyer (pictured with "The Divo")
Friend of the Bride

Bridesmaid: Amy Harberer (pictured with "The Divo")
Friend of the Bride

Bridesmaid: Amanda Sosebee (not currently pictured)

Bridesmaid: Leah Crumley (pictured with husband Jonathan Crumley)
Sister in Law of the Bride

Groomsman: Matthew Fielder (pictured with son Avery Fielder)
Brother of the Groom

Grromsman: Nicholas Fielder (pictured with cousin Shannon Harris)
Brother of the Groom

Groomsman: Patrick Fielder
Brother of the Groom

Groomsman: Joey Ford (pictured with wife Missy)
Long time Friend of the Groom

Groomsman: Nick Mendenhall (pictured with fiance Laura Hawkins)
Long time Friend of the Groom

Groomsman: James Griffin (pictured with wife Amber Griffin)
Long time friend of the Groom

Parents of the Bride: Eddie and Barbara Crumley (pictured with Allison)

Parents of the Groom: Russell and Annette Fielder

Engagement Recall

2007-02-15T06:13:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone, or no one (depending on who actually reads this thing)

I was recalling my wonderful engagement this morning because as of today it has been two months that I have been engaged to Allison. So this one's going to be short but I hope you enjoy because it's gonna have some pictures...yay. ENJOY!

This is the front door of Canoe

This is the garden where I proposed.

Here are the two of us after the engagement and after dinner, neither picture turned out all that good but at least we love each other.

Here are the two of us after the nutcracker, this one actually turned out good.

I hope you have a great day!

Derrick

Valentine's Day

2007-02-14T09:38:00.000-08:00

Well, I must admit that this day has haunted me over the years. That is to say that it used to be a day that I hated. I seriously always got depressed a bit. But not this year my friends. NOT this year. I am hopelessly in love with Allison Elaine Crumley and next year she will be my wife. So, don't hate Valentine's Day, look forward to the one you'll share with your future mate.

In Christ Alone
Derrick

Allison, fiancé extraordinaire

2007-02-13T07:50:00.000-08:00

So I basically have the most amazing fiancé in the world. Yesterday was a very frustrating day for me. I was actually early to three appointments yesterday and ended up not having one and sitting for a few minutes extra on one and an hour and a half on the other. Doctor's offices, hmm.

So, I was supposed to get to see Allison quite early yesterday compared to other days and was excited. I still got to see her for quite some time and that's why she is so awesome. I was seriously in a funk that I was trying to get out of and even trying to remember scripture which helped but then I'd think about it again and be mad. Until I saw her, and this will sound cheesy but it's true, her smile always makes me feel at peace. There, I said it, it was cheesy I know. And though she had reason to be just as upset about some other things, she wasn't she had a very positive outlook. I'm just more excited every day about being her husband. The Lord had to orchestrate this one. It's almost too good to be true. When you wait on Him, you get the best He has. He just wants s to trust Him completely.

May the grace of God be the thought of your heart today,

Derrick

I've already didn't post

2007-02-09T06:40:00.000-08:00

Well, yesterday I didn't post. I am actually in a hurry today and have to go buy groceries for the Valentines Banquet @ church but thought i'd take a minute to explain and to write for today.

Allison was with me last night. I'd much rather see her than write about her. That's me explanation.

Today I want to write about how beautiful she is and how lucky of a guy I am. When spedning time with her last night I looked into her eyes an saw someone who looked back at me with such deep love. That's when I noticed last night of how beautiful she is. I had noticed before, I noticed the moment I saw her. But I'm talking about a beauty much deeper than the skin. I am so lucky to have a beautiful bride to be, but the thing that amazes me is her sweet spirit and her servants heart. She serves me, the "Divo", her middle school girls, and just about everyone she knows.

I looked into her eyes and saw her love for me. It is in all these things combined that you find her beauty.

I hope that you can see our love and follow its model for your life, not because its so great, believe me, all human relationship pale in comparison to the love Christ has. But as for dating relationships and engagements. I hope that you see our deep love for Christ being what drives our deep love for one another. We waited too. She had never dated before me and I had only dated once. Why? We did not feel the need to date unless we were ready to get married. Single life was a gift from God and a time to prepare for what marriage would be. We do not kiss. Why? We wanted that to be somethign for marriage to and felt kissing might only lead to other things if not controlled.

All that we do and did was born out of a desire to honor God first, not ourselves.

All of life must be that.

Honor God.
Derrick

One Flesh

2007-02-07T11:11:00.000-08:00

"6 But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, [1] 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate." Mark 10:6-9

To be continued...

Hello All

2007-02-06T09:52:00.000-08:00

Well, i've decided to start a new, personal blogger in order to write a daily thought on being married in 144 days. When this period is over, I plan to us this address to blog about theological things, Biblical truths, personal encounters, and much much more.

For right now I want to write of things I am doing in order to prepare to be the most awesome husband ever.

Yesterday- Allison and her mom, Barbara (still don't know what to call her yet), went to meet with the caterer. We have now booked her and are moving to the next step which will be florist and invitations. I have enjoyed this whole process! I decided not to go yesterday so that Allison and her mom could do some things together. Mrs. Barbara is so sweet and I look forward to her being my new mother in law. Did I mention that I am excited about being married very soon, if not, I meant to. I am in the process of getting all of the addresses together for all those I will be inviting.

Well, my thought today on engaged life is, though married life sounds so much fun and I caannot wait, this time of engaged life should be used to find even more out about Allison. We must enjoy this season before we move to the next. We live in such a high paced society that people are always moving to the next thing before the first thing is over. Sure, its not bad to be planned (I have really become more planned lately) but we mustn't be so anxious about the next thing that we do not enjoy the first. I therefore, vow to savor each moment as one who is engaged, seeking to find what things the Lord wants me to learn during this time.

I suggest that in your life, whatever it is that you do and get anxious about, don't forget to savor the thing you're doing at that moment. Pause and ask the Lord each moment what? Remember, each moment of life is orchestrated by God almighty, what would he have you take with you for all of life?

Solus Christus

Derrick